Everyone wants respect from their spouse. However, it’s not always given. They say respect is earned. But in relationships, we don’t always know how. I mean, you’re married which means you should naturally respect each other, right? WRONG! Sometimes, mistakes and flaws get in the way. When you disappoint or hurt your partner time […]
Is it healthy to have “individuality” in your marriage? Can you maintain a sense of identity while “becoming one” with your spouse? Although many may disagree, I would say YES! Having independence and autonomy is extremely important in marriage. You need to continue enjoying who you are and growing into who God created you to […]
According to the National Marriage Project or the University of Virginia, “wives who report being very happy with their marriages- who are less prone to divorce- aren’t just lucky.” They take action to make their marriage the best despite their situations or circumstances. Here are the 5 predictors of happy wives: 1) They have a […]
So, what does it take to make marriage last? Let’s look at the research: Feeling special. According to the Early Years of Marriage Project funded by the National Institutes of Health, three-fourths of happy couples reported that their spouses made them feel special often. “Doing or saying small things frequently to make your partner feel […]
CRITICISM 1) It is not your responsibility to “fix” or “save” your partner by telling them what they should change about themselves 2) Seek to praise, NOT to criticize 3) Learn to appreciate the little things that your partner does righ UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS 1) It is unrealistic to expect a perfect partner when you are […]
1) TRUST You have to trust in a marriage. And when I say this, I mean having assurance and confidence in one’s intentions. Trust in your partner is believing that they want the best for the relationship and that they are giving every effort to make it work. Trust is really essential in building the […]
So- we all say the phrase “I need you to…” at some point in our relationship. But what does that really mean? How does it make your partner feel? Well if you haven’t noticed, they usually get defensive. And I say defensive because it typically implies they haven’t done enough of whatever it is you […]
For those of us who tell too much- You have probably been guilty of seeking advice when there were problems in your relationship. Not that getting advice is wrong, it’s just that everyone’s advice isn’t good advice. You want a listening ear- like someone who will empathize with you – but it’s more like someone […]
Can trust be restored? Will you ever be able to trust them again? Was their betrayal so painful that you will never trust them again or is this something that is painful yet bearable- as in we can work through this. Can you forgive? Forgiving doesn’t mean you submit or agree. It just means that […]
So, let me give you a few good reasons why you should not compare your relationship to others: You have no idea what it took for them to get where they are You don’t know their experiences, you don’t know what they went through, you don’t know how difficult it may have been for them […]
