Why Saying ‘I Need You To…’ Can Hurt Your Relationship
So- we all say the phrase “I need you to…” at some point in our relationship. But what does that really mean? How does it make your partner feel? Well if you haven’t noticed, they usually get defensive. And I say defensive because it typically implies they haven’t done enough of whatever it is you […]
A Little Space Please?
So why is giving space important in a relationship? Think back- early in your relationship you were probably stuck to each other. I can remember calling just to hear his voice. Not talking about anything. Basically listening to him breathe. You say: “What are you doing?” He says: “Nothing, what are you doing?” You Say: […]