Commitment- Through Thick and Thin

Marriage requires commitment- we all know that.  When times are good, it’s easy to commitment. No worries, high intimacy, great communication.   But what about the times when commitment is hard?  When you’ve fallen out of love?  When you are hurt by what they did?  When you are frustrated by what they didn’t do? It’s during […]

Why Saying ‘I Need You To…’ Can Hurt Your Relationship

So- we all say the phrase “I need you to…” at some point in our relationship. But what does that really mean? How does it make your partner feel? Well if you haven’t noticed, they usually get defensive. And I say defensive because it typically implies they haven’t done enough of whatever it is you […]

Holding Things Together

Over time things change- from our relationship dynamic, physical appearance, interactions with others, and individual growth. Although all transitions are not bad, they can sometimes be difficult to manage. How can you support your partner when they become distant due to the stress of life challenges? Be HOPEFUL that you will make it through it […]

Hang On Tight, Don’t Let Go

You always hear about “commitment” in relationships. But even deeper than your commitment is your determination. You have to be determined to stay committed. Staying together through the hurt, pain and disappointment requires determination. Both of you have to have intention on hanging on even when it hurts. You have to find purpose through the […]