When you know that you’ve given your all to your relationship and it still doesn’t seem good enough- there is probably a deeper rooted issue.
Reasons might include:
- Comparisons- standards and expectations
- Lack of Respect- broken promises
- Lack of Forgiveness- betrayal or deceit
- Love Language- needs are not met
- gifts, quality time, intimacy, affirmation, acts of service
- Personal stressors
- financial, work, family, health stressors become distractions
- You’ve grown apart
What should you do? SEEK COUNSELING!
Relationship counseling can help-
- Gain greater understanding with an unbiased approach
- Provide clarity without judgement
- Identify areas of improvement
- Expose faulty perceptions that are harming your relationship
- Help inspire new ideas and alternative response
- Encourage a willingness to change
- Teach new skills
Many times we may feel like “I’m doing the best that I can” but it takes BOTH of you “doing the right things” in order the get the “best results” in your relationship
